Neptune square Lilith (orb 1.4°) creates concrete friction between the two planets. The orb is very tight; this describes a stable character pattern more than a passing reaction.
Here, Neptune in Taurus in House 7 brings imagination, image, popularity, collective moods, and inspiration into House 7 (relationship, confrontation, and the mirror of others), with Taurus style (nature, good food, physical sensuality, roots, resources, and perseverance); Lilith in Aquarius in House 3 brings pure ideal, absolute demand, fascination, and refusal of compromise into House 3 (speech, learning, and the close environment), with Aquarius style (independence, networks, distance, and collective change).
Concrete friction: this aspect puts Neptune (imagination, image, popularity, collective moods, and inspiration) and Lilith (pure ideal, absolute demand, fascination, and refusal of compromise) into repeated friction: one can interrupt, inhibit, or provoke the other in concrete situations. Visible angle: Neptune near the Descendant (orb 1.1°) touches an angle; this aspect is easier to notice through direct relationships, partners, opponents, and the way others are met. House 7 (relationship, confrontation, and the mirror of others) is in friction with House 3 (speech, learning, and the close environment); this can create blockage, inhibition, overreaction, or repeated conflict between the two fields.